MEET

MARTIN

dream it.

believe it.

achieve it.

Hi! 

 

Thank you for visiting my site and let me introduce myself and my expertise briefly.

MY STORY FIRST

It all started in the year of 1980 for me, happy kid, happy family and a fairly balanced childhood. Growing up in 80's & 90's in the Central Europe was quite confusing to say the least. Remnants of the old-school upbringing where topics of sex and the deeper dynamics of being in an intimate relationship were almost taboo. On other hand, influence of the western free spirited and bohemian culture was ever so thrilling and inviting, however, clashing with what I grew up in, big time.

 

From the time of my adolescence, there was no one who’d taught me even the basics about sex and intimacy. It was me taking it all in from what I’ve read in magazines, what I’ve seen on TV, from watching a porn, at the time “the perfect platform to learn about sex” I thought, Another "great source" was from what I heard from experiences of others, usually my peers, which meant guys being maximum one or two steps ahead, but again guys who’s journey wasn’t any more different from mine. So basically, looking at it now, I was getting only fraction of all that is available and even that was somehow twisted, untrue and rather useless.

Also, I grew up in an environment where being a man, meant to provide for the family, full stop. Get some kind of education that will ensure that secure 9 to 5 job and get on with it, even if it’s not my cup of tea. In other words, spend most of my life not excited about getting up in the morning, looking at my watch for the 5pm to arrive and looking at my calendar counting down to those precious few days of holiday, where I can be far far away from this blunt reality.

So, as you can see, growing up average to be average...until...

Couple years ago, in my mid thirties, when I was literally on a brink of a suicide, I sat and did an introspection and I realised following...I got dumped by awesome women, I was spending more money than I was earning, my business failed, my health was failing me, I was lacking confidence, drive, motivation, goals...just kind of surviving. I was playing mediocre for most of my life, without even realising it.

At that time, there were only 2 options left for me...pack my bags or f***ing step up and turn my life around!

The journey started for me, when one of the facilitators on a Tantra workshop mentioned a simple, yet profound saying...“how you erect to the world is how erect you are with your woman”, so I chose to dive in, and dive in deep.

...and I didn't stop developing, learning and having the time of my life since.

And to top it all up...back in 2018, I've met a goddess reincarnated who kicks my butt anytime I slip into the zombie mode for even only a second...god bless her!

COACH TALK

I have always been a bit geeky when it comes to human interactions. Oftentimes, observing and examining dynamics of all kinds of relationships and the general interplay of us as species. In later years, this life-long passion of mine led me to a full-on comprehensive study and a research with one main question on my mind. “What does it take to create and keep developing a joyous, enriching, delicious and authentic relationship with others as well as with ourselves?”

Obviously, there is no single formula, not a pill, not an app to install, no one-size-fits-all, no quick fix. Nevertheless, throughout the years I have learned and tested myriad of practical as well as holistic tools and solutions
for the difficult situations people face in their relationships and day to day lives. However, as much as the pragmatic tools go, I believe every single challenge requires an insightful, intuitive, and caring approach and that is something I deem myself being genuinely and naturally skilled at. In other words, I don't just "coach from a book", I base my support and teachings on listening to closely and looking at all the riches and layers of one's psyche. The environment one lives in, the habits he or she holds or the history of one's life is just as important to add to an equation.

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clearly, I was enjoying my teens more high in a club rather than at school

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I am not afraid, to be honest about what I think or what comes up with clients. If that also means being straight and maybe a bit tough or challenging, I will be it. That said, I consider myself being gifted at getting to the heart of the issue, quickly and sensitively.
 
I can turn your perceived "disadvantages or mistakes" to gifts, or your experienced traumas and wounds, into life experiences and lessons that will serve you instead of hold you back. I can say with confidence, after helping countless individuals and couples, that with your help and willingness to change and progress, I am able to find a formula that will suit your particular life situation and will take you where you want it to. As my favorite quote says, "Where there's a will, there's a way".

At the same time, a fair level of openness and cooperation is required from your side. Simply put, the more input from you, the more output from me and greater and quick results for you. The bigger picture I can draw, the finer formula for your regained state of happiness, aliveness, and prosperity I can deliver.