Updated: Nov 3, 2019
Whether you like it or not, everyone has a masculine and feminine energy within them.
However, most people are naturally on one end of the spectrum or the other. People with opposite energies will attract sexually. It’s called sexual polarity. It's the spark and sizzle.
You may see couples with a super strong connection and you wonder, “What’s their secret?”
Most likely that secret is their polarity; their strongly contrasting masculine and feminine energies. Polarity is what creates the inner fire that enlivens us when we encounter our counterpart. Polarity is what makes us feel “crazy” about each other and inspires us. And when we take our masculinity away from relationships, we take away polarity.
Polarity is even more important than having common interests, trust me, it sounds crazy, but it's true.
A man and a woman may have nothing in common, but if they have strong polarity, they can become irresistible to each other.
Sexual attraction, spiritual ecstasy and intimate connection thrive in a relationship when there is a distinct polarity between the energies of both partners.
And if two people have similar polarity? Guess what happens. Their attraction to one another diminishes. Hence, a relationship thrives when there is a distinct polarity between partners. In other words, the more opposed the sexual energies between two people are – masculine vs. feminine energy – the stronger the attraction will be in the relationship. That is the secret to sexual attraction. Of course, sexual polarity is only part of the reason a person feels chemistry. But it is a big part of why you may find yourself pulled to be with someone.
Topic of Polarities is important to understand to be able to keep on growing and developing interpersonal relationships and is greatly discussed in my course "The Supreme Lover". Feel free to check my course here.